Symbolon Deck

43 INCOMPATIBILITY

Brief Description

This card represents the eternal dance between opposing forces - masculine and feminine, day and night, conscious and unconscious. Two figures stand back to back against the Tree of Life, holding hands yet looking in different directions, symbolizing unity with maintained individuality. The card teaches that true harmony comes not from sameness, but from respecting and integrating differences while preserving one's authentic self. It speaks to relationships where partners complement rather than complete each other, maintaining their unique worlds while sharing a common foundation.

Keywords

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Keywords

Banishment from paradise, duality, marriage, day and night, yin and yang.

Card Description

Astrological Correspondence

Cancer/Leo

Planets

Moon/Sun.

Archetypes

Mother + Ego.

Image

Two figures, a man and woman, stand with their backs to the tree of life. They hold hands but look in different directions. On the man's side is day, on the woman's side is night. Yin and Yang. The tree of life connects them, but also separates them.

Core Meaning

Each lives in their own world, though they touch each other. Unity and freedom. Unity and difference of opposites. Two behavioral models, two lives. The card is not conflicted. The right to uniqueness. Division of powers, spheres of influence.

Deeper Significance

Instinctive attraction. Daytime and nighttime consciousness.

Symbols and Colors

Tree - life. Mother - night, yin. Ego - day, yang.

Card Meanings in Readings

Positive Meanings

The personality is distinguished by individuality, able to express their vision, accomplish something independently, though only in one direction, possesses self-respect.

Negative Meanings

Indecisive and inconstant personality, often suffers from split personality, does not respect others.

General Associations

The Lunar Mother meets the Solar Ego.

Symbolic Description

Two figures stand with their backs to the Tree of Life; they hold hands but look in different directions. On one side of the tree is day, on the other is night. Bright sun - clear consciousness, full moon - fullness of feelings. Daytime (solar, logical, masculine) consciousness is opposed to nighttime (lunar, feminine, instinctive).

Understanding Differences

It is difficult for man and woman to understand each other because they are too different. This must simply be accepted, since it cannot be changed.

Life's Paradox

People are united by life, but life also separates them.

Coexistence

Each lives in their own world, though they touch each other. Union and freedom coexist nearby, unity and difference of opposites. Man and woman are two lives, two behavioral models, and each has the right to uniqueness.

Card for the Day

Working in pairs where each fulfills their role. But together they do one thing. The right to one's own world.

Necessary Actions

Recognize and unite the masculine and feminine within yourself to achieve wholeness.

Conclusions to Draw Today

Even if you are together with someone, you cannot dissolve into another person.

Personal Identity

You are a personality with your own needs, desires, your own inner world.

What I Can Learn Today

Today you must learn to work in pairs, complementing each other.

Integration

Learn to accept your femininity from your masculine aspect, or vice versa.

Behavior Among Others

Relationships with others should be built on respect for the partner's uniqueness.

Universal Need

Everyone is different, but everyone needs each other for harmony.

Motive

To realize oneself, one of one's principles (feminine or masculine).

State

Desire to express one's vision. Feeling of one's individuality. Frequent change of state (from active to passive and vice versa) depending on the situation. Internal conflict between high goals and their realization.

Process

Wave-like. Unstable.

Relationships

Together and apart. Partners speak the same language, about the same thing, but don't understand each other. They perceive the world differently. Can exist together only by preserving their own world - dividing powers and spheres of influence.

Union of Different Worlds

This is a union of different worlds. On the everyday level: a couple wants to eat, but one partner wants chicken, the other soup - the theme is common, but the dishes are different. Misunderstanding - men don't understand women, women don't understand men.

Intimate Relations

Sexual relations either absent or weakened. The card shows a family when partners are not satisfied with each other, but still together because they are united by family.

Warning

Don't dissolve into your partner - there's danger of losing your individuality.

Advice

Find a complementing partner. Life's continuation is more important than individuality. Respecting our own world, we will learn to respect our partner.

Practical Guidance

Try to distribute efforts evenly, give your all for a certain period, then completely relax and rest. Need to integrate masculine and feminine character traits within yourself.

Result

Unification of two principles (cooperation of different people or organizations; right and left hemispheres; daytime (masculine) and nighttime (feminine) principles) or acceptance of only one. Realization of one (daytime or nighttime/feminine or masculine) part of our personality.

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Symbolon Deck

✍️ Deck author(s): Peter Orban, Ingrid Zinnel, Thea Weller

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