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About This Spread
Issues in relationships are rarely one-sided. When fights and arguments are abound, this spread can help you think through the issues and forge a way forward.
Position Meanings
Your Contribution
How did you contribute to this problem? What was your role?
Their Contribution
How did they contribute to this problem? What was their role?
Advice for You
What can you do to improve this relationship? How can you contribute to healing?
Advice for Them
What can your partner do to improve this relationship? How can they contribute to healing?
Other Influences
What influences are at work outside of this partnership that are contributing to the rift between you?
Can It Be Saved?
What is the future of this relationship after this breach? Will the relationship be rebuilt to what it was before?
Worth Saving?
With all the effort from everyone involved, is this relationship worth saving for both of you? Will you be truly happy?