Spread Layout
0 Current State
1 Why Stay
2 Why Go
3 How I'll feel staying
4 How I'll feel leaving
5 Overall Advice
About This Spread
Some things can't be saved. It's a heavy decision. This is a spread to help the thought process get started for you.
Position Meanings
0
Current State
How does the relationship look like right now? What is the emotional state that it is in?
1
Why Stay
What are the pros? What was it that drew you together in the first place?
2
Why Go
What are the cons? What are you lacking in this relationship to be truly fulfilled?
3
How I'll feel staying
What emotional affect will it have on you if you stay?
4
How I'll feel leaving
What emotional affect will it have on you if you leave?
5
Overall Advice
What must you examine in order to make the final decision between these two? What principles will guide your choice?