18 QUARREL/DISAGREEMENT
Keywords
Keywords
Dispute, battle of the sexes; confrontation; war axe, destruction of Symbolon.
Card Description
Astrological Correspondence
Aries\Libra
Planets
Mars\Venus.
Archetypes
Warrior + PUER (Couple).
Picture
The destructive energy of Aries has interfered with the dance. Aries' individualism disrupts the harmony of the couple. On the card are he and she, but the roses are trampled. The woman has acquired a purse, the man - a dagger. In their poses - tension, challenge: her arms are crossed over her chest, his are clenched into fists. Between them the earth has split, and a sword is thrust into the crevice. In the sword's hilt - a heart with a crack: meaning feelings existed, still exist, but a split has occurred. Everything happens very painfully, each partner suffers, but stands their ground. In their faces are hurt, anger, but neither wants to take the first step toward reconciliation. The card speaks of love and struggle.
Symbols and Colors
Trampled roses - quarrel Split earth - rupture Sword - conflict Heart on the sword - former feelings
Card Meanings in Spreads
Positive Meanings
defend one's viewpoint, firmness.
Negative Meanings
conflict, quarrel, irreconcilability
Card for the Day
Today is a very conflicted day. Quarrels are possible from minor to serious.
Necessary Actions
You need to become aware of your state and work through it.
What Conclusions Must Be Made Today
Recognizing discomfort and disharmony is the first step on the path to finding inner balance.
What I Can Learn Today
Today you can learn to track your inner manifestations.
How to Behave Among My Environment
Your environment today will provoke you into conflict. Don't take their bait.
Motive
Self-assertion, stubbornness, defending one's position at any cost. Insisting on having your way - despite everything.
State
Opposing yourself to the surrounding world. And the world responds in kind. Better to do it my way, even if it harms me.
Process
Very conflicted, during which everyone will manage to quarrel.
Relationships
Relationships are tense. Quarrels, conflicts. One side has a desire to subjugate the partner, rather than listen and try to understand. But if the partner submits, they become uninteresting. Often the woman initiates the conflict, demanding some radical decision from the man, and not receiving it - suspends the relationship. If the couple has been together for a long time, then the crack in their relationship is very deep and the relationship can still be restored, since feelings have been preserved. If the couple has been together recently, then feelings haven't had time to strengthen - a breakup is possible. The conflict may be over infidelity.
Warning
A rigid position, stubbornness leads to widening the crack between people.
Advice
Enter into conflict, draw boundaries with someone, separate. Don't sacrifice your convictions for the sake of maintaining good relationships. Defend your point of view. Some conflict is ripening within you, disagreement with something. This inner state provokes a reaction (aggression) toward you from the external world. You need to recognize this state and work through it.
Result
Breaking of relationships, separation, quarrel.
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